The complete program is a 16-hour course. It is divided into eight 2-hour sessions, an introductory session and then a session for each conversation in the book. For each session we teach the theory and practice of the conversation, show a video clip of Sue guiding a couple through the conversation, break for structured couple exercises, and regroup for discussion.
Part I takes couples through the first 4 conversations. These 4 conversations build upon one another. As couples learn the material and the follow the guided exercises they sink deeper into connection in the most remarkable way. Couples can experience a new kind of connection with their partner that can be transformative by just participating in Part I.
Part II covers the final 3 conversations. Conversations 5 and 6 address critical and at times challenging elements in a love relationship – forgiveness and sex. Couples have more success with these conversations once they have recognized and begun shifting negative patterns in their relationship. For this reason we offer these as a separate workshop. Couples may choose to sign up for both simultaneously or wait to take Part II with the next go around. They may also choose to process these in couples therapy with an EFT therapist. In Part II we also cover conversation 7 in which couples create a road map for deliberately maintaining and fostering this new found connection.